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Cherish Your Grandparents

8 Oct

I miss not having my grandparents around. I haveΒ written about them before and all the wonderful memories I have of them. I was fortunate to be able to spend a large amount of time with them throughout my life but like many things in life I think I took them for granted. I look back at my teenage self and wish that I spent more quality time with them. Of course now I see they weren’t gonna be here forever but it is hard to make a teenager comprehend such things.

I lost all of my grandparents pretty suddenly. My grandmother had a stroke and died shortly after due to complications caused by the stroke. My grandfather Overholt, my dad’s father suffered from the beginning stages of Alzheimer’s and his health had started to decline rapidly. My grandfather Hodge, my mom’s father died from cancer of the mouth that appeared suddenly and was simply too strong to fight against. He was my last living grandparent. He was able to see all the preparations for my wedding and I was able to show him my wedding dress the day before I got married. He wasn’t able to be there the day I was married because he was so weak. He held on long enough to see pictures from the ceremony the next day but then he passed in his sleep not long after.

I have enough memories of all them that I could probably write for an entire year straight about all the things I was able to experience with them. I know I was incredibly lucky to have them around so long and for them to be such a crucial part of my life. It doesn’t make it any easier though to not have them here now. I wish they all could have had the opportunity to meet Lila just one time. I know she wouldn’t have remembered but I know they would have loved her and been so proud.

Shew, this is making me super emotional and teary so I am going to end it. If you have your grandparents around go spend some time with them. If I had one more day I would make it count.

Our Week in Review

27 Apr

-Lila’s eye is healing and she is doing great with it. The stitches come out tomorrow!

-It’s been a rough week for the bug though, we took her to the dr. yesterday after days of having congestion and a runny nose. She is now being treated for a sinus infection. Poor thing, it has made her pretty crabby but I think the medicine is already helping her today.

-In some exciting news, our house is going on the market today! We filled out all the paperwork on Sunday and have been trying to keep the house super tidy and ready for showing. I have made our bed for 5 days in row! This is some kind of record. Making the bed has never been on my list of important chores because I always figured we were going to be crawling right back in it. However, I have to admit, it does make the house look a lot nicer and it is nice to get into a freshly made bed at the end of the day.

-We will probably be working on a few last minute touches around the house this weekend and also getting ready for Josh’s big 31st birthday on Monday.

Happy Friday everyone, have a wonderful weekend.